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Someone died

What to do in the first weeks, and help for the family.Help in Oklahoma, from the federal government, and near you.

What to do first

  1. Give the funeral home the person's Social Security number. They usually tell Social Security about the death.
  2. Order several copies of the death certificate. Banks and agencies will ask for one.
  3. Call Social Security to ask about survivor benefits.
  4. If the person served in the military, ask VA about burial benefits.
  5. If you lost health coverage, pick a new plan soon.

Talk it through

Tell us more about what happened. We answer first, then show the programs that fit, then ask a few questions to narrow it down.

Dates that matter

These windows are set by federal rules. Your state may have its own dates too, so ask the agency.

  • 2 years

    Social Security death payment

    A surviving spouse may get a one-time payment of $255. If there is no spouse, a child may get it. Apply within 2 years of the death.

    Source: SSA.gov
  • 60 days

    Health coverage

    If the death means you lose your health plan, you can sign up for a Marketplace plan. You have 60 days.

    Source: HealthCare.gov

Help from Oklahoma

Oklahoma programs that fit what happened. Each agency decides who qualifies.

  • Oklahoma State Department of Health

    Vital Records

    Vital Records issues eligible applicants certified birth and death records.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaper

  • Oklahoma Human Services

    Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program

    SNAP provides monthly food benefits on an EBT card to eligible households.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePaperIn person

  • Oklahoma Human Services and Oklahoma Health Care Authority

    SoonerCare

    In Oklahoma, Medicaid is called SoonerCare.

    SoonerCare helps pay for health care for eligible Oklahoma residents.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePaperIn person

  • HealthCare.gov

    Federally Facilitated Marketplace

    Oklahoma residents use HealthCare.gov to compare and enroll in ACA Marketplace health plans.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaper

  • Oklahoma Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse Services

    Behavioral Health Services

    ODMHSAS funds and provides mental health and substance use treatment and recovery services.

    Ways to apply:PhoneIn person

  • Oklahoma Human Services

    Community Living, Aging and Protective Services

    CAP connects older adults, caregivers, and vulnerable adults with local services and support.

    Ways to apply:Phone

  • Oklahoma Human Services

    Temporary Assistance for Needy Families

    TANF gives time-limited cash assistance to eligible families with children.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePaperIn person

Checked on October 8, 2026

Federal help

These work the same in every state. Each agency decides who qualifies.

  • SSA.gov

    Survivor benefits from Social Security

    A widow or widower, an ex-spouse, children, and parents who depended on the person may get monthly benefits. Call Social Security to apply.

  • VA.gov

    Burial benefits for veterans

    VA can help pay for a veteran's burial and funeral, and offers burial in a VA national cemetery.

  • Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services

    HealthCare.gov

    The federal marketplace for health insurance plans. Many people can get lower monthly costs based on their income.

    Apply online at HealthCare.gov or by phone during open enrollment, or after a big change like losing other coverage.

Checked on October 9, 2026

Help near you

Find county and state offices near you, or call 211 to talk to someone about help in your area.

Offices near you

Type a five-digit ZIP code or a county in Oklahoma.

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